Rough Sex: A Beginner’s Guide
There are several reasons why lovers want rough sex. As a rule, people do not associate pain with pleasure. But when a person is in pain, his brain produces endorphins. So some people feel an emotional lift from feeling pain when they realize that there is no real danger. In addition, this kind of sex allows you to free yourself from inhibitions and experience new sensations.
It is not necessary to buy a whip or play Mistress and Master. There are a variety of techniques that allow you to toughen up sex without causing any physical or emotional harm to your partner.
1. Tearing off clothes, especially panties and underwear. Care must be taken here because some materials are quite strong, you could end up damaging your skin instead of your clothes.
2. Biting is a great way to give your partner pleasure because it can be done with varying degrees of intensity. The most common places for biting are: nipples, neck, shoulders, inner thighs, and in some cases even genitals. The main thing is not to bite too hard.
3. Stretching the skin. Pulling with your fingers or teeth increases the touch. Earrings in the earlobe or any other places are especially convenient for this purpose, but you can just pull the skin lightly in the erogenous zones.
4. pulling on the hair. The most convenient place for this is the back of the head. Gather your partner’s hair in your hand and pull. This can be done at any moment of intimacy, but it is especially common to pull a woman’s hair when the man is in the back position. With this gesture, you can express dominance, make him get closer or come closer.
5. Spanking. Strangely enough, many women have a positive attitude towards this type of entertainment. Of course, it is worth taking care that this game does not lead to bruises.
6. Deprivation of Control. This is what ropes and handcuffs are used for. But any other techniques that restrict movement can also enliven sexual play. You can press your partner’s hands to the bed or firmly squeeze his shoulders, not allowing him to move. This game is especially suitable for people who, on the one hand, used to take the initiative in sex, and on the other – secretly dream to change the role.
It is worth agreeing in advance whether you can leave bruises or marks on the body. In addition to questions that may arise from friends and co-workers, this can lead to painful feelings and undermine trust in the partner.
Of course, hard sex requires total trust in each other. If you have doubts about his skills or intentions, it’s best to wait until you feel comfortable.
